Femi Afelumo – 1976/81 Set

As they say, formative experiences in youth yield a profound impact on our latter lives. The environments, relationships, and events during our early years mould our beliefs, behaviours, and perspectives on life. Positive experiences nurture resilience, confidence, and empathy, while adverse circumstances may erect emotional barriers and challenges. Indeed, our childhood lays the cornerstone for our characters, decision-making processes, and relationships, thereby influencing our interactions with the world as adults. Understanding these impacts can aid us in navigating life with heightened awareness and compassion toward ourselves and others.

Abiodun Olukayode Abe aka Garba transcended mere recollections of my school days; he embodied an influential and enduring presence. His mesmerizing aura, reminiscent of an alluring fragrance, etched an indelible mark on those in his midst. As the Social Prefect of my alma mater between 1979 and 1980, he exuded authority, respect, and regality. His orchestrations of social gatherings on Saturday nights evoked a yearning for cherished moments of nostalgia. Garba’s influence was undeniable, rendering him a figure akin to an Adonis in the eyes of many.

My portrayal of Garba reflects my deep admiration for his indelible influence rather than solely his gender. He inspired me through his captivating presence, authority, and adeptness in arranging social gatherings that invoked nostalgia for cherished moments. His impact on the school community was profound, exuding respect and regality that served as a wellspring of inspiration. Moreover, his talent for nurturing positive atmospheres during social gatherings left an enduring imprint on me, setting him apart from his peers and leaving a profound impact.

Immersion in dramatic arts and intense literary exploration during my secondary education in EPC enriched my formative years. Participation in theatrical productions and literary submersion, not only cultivated my creative faculties but also honed my oratory and narrative prowess. These experiences ignited a fervent passion for the arts and instilled in me a deep reverence for performance and language.

In his role as a director at the Nigerian National Theatre, Garba’s education and abilities undoubtedly played a pivotal role in his success. His theatrical background, honed during his days in Ekiti Parapo College, where he excelled as the Social Prefect, laid a robust foundation for his future endeavours. His influential leadership at the College showcased his early leadership aptitude and interpersonal skills, likely contributing to his subsequent success as a director. Additionally, the influence of his mentor, Prince Bayo Adeniran, who charted the course for his involvement in drama, further shaped Garba’s trajectory. Oga Bayo, our Field Marshal, who laid the foundation for us to build upon as our mentor, played a pivotal role in ushering him into the realm of drama, providing inspiration and mentorship that indelibly influenced Garba’s career.

Furthermore, engagement in scholastic pursuits and interaction with peers of both sexes in a coeducational setting furthered my holistic development. This environment facilitated the comprehension of diverse perspectives, the celebration of diversity, and the cultivation of robust collaborative relationships. These experiences were instrumental in shaping my character, instilling confidence, and nurturing an ethos of open-mindedness that continues to influence my personal and professional demeanour. It is remarkable to witness the influence of Garba’s contributions in the realm of drama. His roles in directing and acting in productions such as “Kiriji War”, “The Son of the Slave Parents”, and “Kurunmi” undeniably set monumental precedents in EPC. It is truly inspiring to witness how exposure to such remarkable world can significantly enrich one’s formative years.

The amalgamation of explorative creativity, academic pursuits, and diverse social interactions during my formative years forms a robust groundwork for my subsequent pursuits, and I am grateful for the invaluable insights and competencies acquired during this phase, especially while looking up to an icon like Garba.